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I miss you my friend. We had so much fun in high school. Thanks for the memories

I love and miss you every day dad. Not one day goes by that I don’t think about you and your kind heart and beautiful contagious smile. They say it gets easier with time I don’t believe that . Dad I love you so much and nothing is the same without you here I’m so sorry you had to leave this earth and leave us even though I know you’re in a better place. You were too good for this world dad way too good especially what it is turning into but we needed you here to show people what a great man is, really a perfect man! I miss you so so much what I would do to just hug you one more time and share a good laugh with you… I love you dad and always will..

Worked with Tom for nearly 20 years. So sorry for your loss. Tom was an upbeat guy who was a joy to be around. Many fond memories will be held in my mind. Even though we had a working relationship, I feel like we could talk about anything. Makes me smile when I think of him.

Thank you for allowing the Monroe County American Legion Honor Guard to give Tom a final salute. A huge honor for me to speak but also so difficult to say good bye to a friend.

God bless your family.

Bonnie, Amanda and Katie,

We find ourselves sad and broken-hearted as we express our sincere sympathies to all of you. Our memories of Tom will always be fresh and alive and he will be missed each day.

Tom's loving and helping nature formed an immediate bond with each person he touched. Many commented how they admired your relationship. Your love for each other was strong and visible to everyone who knows you.

We hope you find comfort in the memories you shared with Tom and celebrate them. We are sending our love and prayers, know that you are all in our thoughts.

Tammie and Peter

To Bonnie and the family - we are so very sorry to hear about Tom's passing. He was such a warm, caring, funny person who brought endless joy into your lives. You are in our thoughts and hearts. Cousins Sheri, Kaeli, Doug Jr., and Aunt Dorrie

May God’s love & strength be with the Henshaw family. Tom was a awesome mentor with the Missing & Exploited Children family.

Tom you were a tremendous blessing to your family and friends. You were a great role model to many! You will not be forgotten. Love Mike, Marie, Colin, and Drew Page

My deepest condolences. We will miss you my friend. Gone way to soon.

Bonnie and Family,
Tom " The Machine " , mentor and compadre to all bike riders
Always upbeat,positive ,focused ,calm,,,, not a smidge of bring down
Not enough like him
Sadly missed for sure ,,,sorry we cant be there Bonnie
Ride on brother
Mike Turcotte

What a wonderful man. I'm so sorry to hear of his passing. He "took care of our building". He made you feel like your building was the most important thing to him. He also made you feel that way as a person. He will be truly missed on this earth. Heaven has another angel.

Bonnie, Amanda, Katie and family .
We were so sorry to hear of Tom’s passing . He was truly a kind and wonderful man . We have many good memories of times we shared together. You are all in our thoughts and prayers .
Michele and Brian Labigan

Bonnie, Amanda, Katie, family and friends,

Glenn and I extend our most sincere sympathies to you all during this time of loss. (Class of ‘80, Spencerport)

Dear Henshaw family. Sending lots of love and comfort. We are so sorry for your loss. I will always think of Tommy as another brother next door on Hiawatha trail. He always made us laugh.

Tom was a kind and loyal soul. His devotion to his family was evident in everything he did. He will be sorely missed.

I am so sorry to hear about Tom. He was a great guy who was always there to help . Prayers to the family

To the Henshaw Family. I’m so sorry for your loss. I grew up with Tommy. Always a quiet and sweet. I got to talk with him not long ago at Jitters and we had a nice chat catching up. Heaven got a great angel that was taken way to soon. Prayers to all. 🥰. Theresa (English) Whipple

To the Henshaw Family:
I am deeply sorry for your loss. Tom was such an amazing person. I am grateful for the time that I had to work with him. I'm going to miss his witty humor and jokes but most of all his infectious smile. His energy here at LeChase will truly be missed. My prayers are with you during this difficult time. xo

~Angela Wiesmore (LeChase)

Bonnie, Amanda, and Katie, May Tom Rest In Peace and the love of our Lord bring comfort to all of you at this difficult time. Tom was always a kind, loving man with a smile that brought light to wherever he went. If there is such a thing as a perfect man, he exemplified it! Love to all of you..

Bonnie, Amanda,and Katie, I just wanted to extend my heartfelt sympathy for your loss. I remember Tom from Parkway Day Care. Both the girls were in my class and Tom was always the kindest, most genuine person . He was always in a good mood and happy. His family was so special to him and he adored his girls. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. Sincerely, Miss Julie (Duthoy)

Heaven has truly gained one of the best angels that can be. From the very first time I met Tom doing my first missing children's bike ride and all of the other fun rides we did together, I knew this was a man of integrity, dedication and the most fun to be around. Please know how deeply saddened I am and will continue to pray for comfort and peace for all of you. Rest in heavenly peace Tom. You will be deeply missed.

Bonnie,
I am so sorry for your loss. I have only known Tom for a short time but he was a great guy! My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.

Bonnie, Amanda & Katie- My heart aches to hear this sad news. Know that I'm thinking of you and the family in this time of need. Tom was the kindest and most caring person I've known. His smile and laughter were contagious, he'll never be forgotten. RIP Tom

Bonnie-there are no words that can be said that will help with your loss. My heart is heavy for you and your family but I smile as I think of Tom. It always brightened my day when he would stop in to raid the candy jar or when he would come quickly when we needed heat (or air) in the conference rooms. His smile and laugh were genuine and warm and he will be greatly missed.

When the gates of heaven opened to receive Tom, they gained a man of such great stature and character.
Tom was truly a selfless and devoted husband, father and friend. Anyone lucky enough to know Tom or be a part of his life, saw how he lived and loved everyone so freely. Words that come to mind when describing Tom are honest, caring, devoted, hard working, dedicated and very funny.
You are forever in my heart Tom…Rest in peace brother, rest in peace.

Tom was a beautiful soul! The definition of kindness and always willing to help anyone. The world lost another source of light and happiness and he will be truly missed. I have no doubt he's in a much better place now and at peace...may we all be luck enough to see/join him again someday! Prayers to the family!